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Purpose & Healing Mentorship (1:1)

Inner Child • Shadow Work • Deep Feminine •
Polarity • Divine Union •
Freedom of Self-Expression

You already know there is more available in your life than what you are currently living. You are not here to be given that life. You are here to create it.

On the outside, your life may function, but inside something is not fully aligned. You can see the patterns clearly: self-doubt, emotional overwhelm, shame, anxiety, anger, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and self-abandonment.

You do not need more insight into why this is happening. You need to take responsibility for shifting it.

This mentorship is for the part of you that is ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start living differently.

We work with your inner world with unconditional presence, and we speak directly to the adult in you who is capable of change.

Alongside inner work, we focus on how you are actually living: your structure, habits, body, relationships, and follow-through.

Transformation is not something you understand. It is something you practice.

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Together We May Explore

We work at the level of emotional patterns, embodied experience, and lived behavior.

• Rebuilding your relationship with yourself so you are no longer led by shame, reactivity, or self-abandonment
• Healing early relational imprints, including mother and father wounds
• Releasing shame around emotions, desire, sexuality, sensitivity, and self-expression
• Transforming repetitive emotional and generational cycles through awareness and choice
• Learning to feel emotions without being overwhelmed or unconsciously driven by them
• Building boundaries that are grounded, clear, and consistent
• Reclaiming anger, grief, desire, ambition, and sensitivity as life force
• Moving through life transitions including relationships, grief, career change, identity shifts, organ removal, pregnancy, postpartum, or spiritual emergence
• Developing embodied self-trust so decisions come from clarity, not overthinking
• Strengthening authentic expression, direction, and aligned action in daily life

 

My Method

At the center of this work is a practice I call Unconditional Presence.

This is not a mindset tool. It is a practice of meeting yourself without distortion or avoidance.

Most people are not stuck because they lack insight. They are stuck because they repeatedly abandon themselves in real time.

This work closes that gap.

We move through three stages:

1. Awareness

You learn to stay with what is happening inside you without escaping it or becoming it. Emotional patterns become visible in real time.

2. Responsibility

You begin to see where you are actively participating in your patterns through avoidance, collapse, overthinking, or repetition. Responsibility returns your agency.

 

3. Embodiment

Insight is translated into lived behavior. We work directly with your life's structure, habits, relationships, nervous system, and body so change becomes tangible.

Core Principles of This Work

• Presence over analysis
• Responsibility over interpretation
• Embodiment over insight
• Action over awareness
• Truth over comfort

You are not learning how to feel better.

You are learning how to stop abandoning yourself.

What This Work Is

This is not self-improvement.

It is the process of closing the gap between what you know and how you live.

You are not learning how to feel better.

You are learning how to stop abandoning yourself in real time.

Mentorship Container (1:1)

 

 3–6 Month Mentorship (1:1) | 13 private online sessions

The length of this mentorship is 3 to 6 months, depending on the pace and frequency of sessions.

This allows the process to honor your individual rhythm, integration capacity, and real-life circumstances.

Investment:


$2,200 standard investment

For a limited time (July 1st – July 31st):

$1,800 one-time payment | or 4 payments of $465 | or 6 payments of $320

After July 31st, the investment will begin gradually returning to the standard rate and will stabilize at $2,200 by September 1st.

What’s Included

• Intake and body-based assessment before we begin

• 2-hour initial deep-dive online session to map your patterns, emotional landscape, and direction
• 90– minute private online sessions throughout the container
• Voice message support between sessions
• Personalized practices for emotional processing, embodiment, and daily life integration
• Work with shadow patterns, relational dynamics, nervous system regulation, and practical restructuring of life habits
• Optional tools may include meditation, movement practices, journaling, Reiki, and archetypal insight when relevant.

No two processes are the same. We work with what is present in your life as it unfolds.

Apply for a Mentorship

If this work speaks to you and you feel curious to explore whether it is the right fit, you can get in touch below.

You are welcome to include any questions about the process or timing.

Schedule your discovery call here. Fill out the contact form below or email thenewearthguide@gmail.com with questions. 

 

About

My name is Lila Ksenia

I am a facilitator of emotional and embodied transformation work, rooted in psychology, embodiment, and long-term contemplative practice.

I hold degrees in Psychology and Mathematics and have a background in cognitive neuroscience research. I spent over eight years living and studying in an ashram, where I trained in yoga philosophy, meditation, and contemplative practice.

 I am a mother and trained doula, and my work is informed by trauma, lived experience of embodiment and childbirth, and deep relational transformation. I also bring a neurodivergent lens to my understanding of emotional patterns and human complexity.

My method, Unconditional Presence, supports people in working directly with emotional patterns through the body rather than through insight or analysis alone.

I work at the intersection of psychology, shadow work, embodiment, spirituality, and practical life restructuring.

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